8 year old Boy Marries 61 year old Woman in South Africa
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Sanele
Masilela tied the knot with Helen Shabangu, who is already married and a
mother-of-five.
Eight
year old schoolboy has married a 61-year-old woman because the ghost of his
dead ancestor told him to.
The boy,
from Tshwane, South Africa, said he had been told by his dead ancestors to wed
and his family, fearing divine retribution, forked out for a wedding.
They paid
£500 for the bride and a further £1,000 for the big day, which was organised in
just two months.
Dressed
in a bow tie and tiny silver suit, little Sanele, the youngest of five
children, exchanged rings in front of 100 guests and even puckered up for a
kiss.
It's
already shocked the community but the family has defended the ceremony, saying
it was just a ritual and not legally binding.
Sanele's 46-year-old mum, Patience
Masilela said: 'This is the first time this has happened in the family.
'Sanele
is named after his grandfather, who was never had a white wedding before he
died so asked Sanele to get married. He chose Helen because he loves her.
'By doing
this we made the ancestors happy. If we hadn't done what my son had asked then
something bad would have happened in the family.
'I didn't
have a problem with it because I know it's what the ancestors wanted and it
would make them happy.
The
widow, who works at a recycling centre, added: 'I would say that this is not
wrong.
'I'm happy that I married Helen - but I
will go to school and study hard.
'Sanele
was fine and he was happy about the ceremony and it was what he wanted. He was
happy to get married and very excited.'
Sanele
and his bride did not sign a marriage certificate and do not have to live
together. Both have gone back to their normal lives.
Sanele
today said he hoped he would have a proper wedding to a woman his own age when
he was older.
He added:
'I told my mother that I wanted to get married because I really did want to.
'When I'm
older I will marry a lady my own age.'
Despite being
old enough to be his grandmother, bride Helen, whose children are aged between
37 and 27, was happy with the arrangement.
Helen,
who also works at a recycling centre, said: 'I'm married and have five kids of
my own, but I know that this is what the ancestors wanted - and now they are
happy.
'It is a
ritual. We are just playing now, but it is a sign that he will get married one
day.'
Her
husband of 30 years, Alfred, 65, said: 'My kids and I are happy.
'We don't
have problems with it but some of the community members were shocked.'
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